Life can be hard asf! For every tear ever cried in private, there were double the smiles as a cover up. The thought of being exposed can make us shiver with determination as we swear to never be perceived as 'weak'. The scars on our emotional flesh are worn proudly to show we've been through shit … Continue reading Is shutting yourself off the solution?
False Evidence Appearing Real. That's what they say fear is, just an illusion. A mirage your brain sends you to stop you from doing stupid shit that may cause you to potentially die, in proper English. It jumps on you out of nowhere and can cripple you into inaction or force you into into quick … Continue reading Fear is a well meaning friend…
'Happiness is a mental or emotional state of well-being defined by positive or pleasant emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy. Happy mental states may also reflect judgement by a person about their overall well-being' (Wikipedia) Happiness is one of the few things all humans can agree on, i.e that it feels really good so … Continue reading Are You Conditional with Your Happiness?
The mind. What a powerful, traitorous little thing. From friend to foe within what sometimes feels like seconds, it can uplift you to such wonderful heights of self-confidence and glee, only to drop you in a puddle of gooey self-misery with what seems to be no notice at all. In this pursuit of happiness we’re … Continue reading Overthinking: The Art of Creating Blockages
Have you ever felt like everything is great in your life? It feels like things seem to be working out effortlessly - almost as if life was conspiring for you to always come out on top and you're UNSTOPPABLE! You can't believe your luck but you're riding with it because it's been a long time coming, … Continue reading Life is great… and then it isn’t… and then it’s great…and then it isn’t…
In extreme cases like unjustified animosity towards someone (including myself) who doesn't deserve it, I used to be able to hold a serious grudge. I kid you not! I could sit and chew on the bone of resentment for decades and you wouldn't even know it. It would eat me up while I would go … Continue reading Why Forgiving Someone is Really About Forgiving Yourself
One look at the world today and you realize : there's so much healing to be had. There's so much anger, resentment, moronic behavior fueled by the disillusion of broken dreams ... broken promises... broken hearts. It's like we're stuck in this deep ass ditch, piled up on each other - trying to climb one … Continue reading Life Wins : It’s Inevitable
I have a friend who is always complaining. Regardless what's going on in her life, she's -al-ways-complaining. She may be going through the best time in her life and still will find something to feel unfulfilled about which can make it very frustrating to watch at times. There's a theory that the people in our … Continue reading The Thing About Negative People
I have a lot of time on my hands these days as a result of a conscious decision I made in 2016, to no longer live a life that was not fulfilling to me : I had a job that paid well but didn't make me happy, a great day to day that offered no … Continue reading Are You Living the Life You Want?
You know when life keeps repeating something to you over and over again, telling you through various random signboards and mouthpieces that you need to do something? And so you blindly engage not really sure about where any of this is supposed to lead but certain that maybe if you do go ahead with it the … Continue reading When Life Calls i.e I don’t know What this Blog is About